Showing posts with label Conflict. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Conflict. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Conflicts

What is a conflict?

A conflict is an emotional collision.  It is stress caused by incompatible desires or demands.  It is what occurs when we have two or more impulses in competition with one another.

Conflict may be internal or external - that is, it may occur within a character's mind or between a character and exterior forces.  Conflict is most visible between two or more characters, usually a protagonist and an antagonist, but can occur in many different forms.

The basic types of conflict in fiction have been commonly codified as "man against man", "man against nature", "man against self".  In each case, "man" is the universal and refers to women as well.

"Man against man" conflict involves stories where characters are against each other.  This is an external conflict.

"Man against nature" conflict is an external struggle positioning the hero against an animal or a force of nature.
With "man against self" conflict, the struggle is internal.  A character must overcome his own natures or make a choice between two or more paths - good or evil; logic and emotion.
[Wikipedia - conflict]

Knowing our limitations, God urges us to "cast all our anxieties on Him" (1 Peter 5:7) and to replace worry with active, specific prayer (Philippian 4:6).  Prayer may not stop the collision, but, like seat belts, it sure can protect us from serious damage.
James asked us to  "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.  Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything." (James 1:2-4)

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Managing Daily Conflict

Well everyone faces conflicts - at home ; at work ; in the society & everywhere.
After attending 2 hours of seminar sessions - conflict seems to be here to stay. We are not able to make it go away BUT we can try going around it. We can not avoid it BUT can learn to face it and deal with it.
One important RULE I learn is, we must LISTEN -
LISTEN because God gave us two ears but only one mouth.
LISTEN because we need two eyes to be attentive and a heart to be sincere. We also need to be humble by bring ourselves down to the 'ground'.