Sunday, May 29, 2016

Tongue - Blessing or Curses

As the apostle James put it, "All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and creatures of the sea are being tamed and have been tamed by man." (James 3:7)(NIV)  But there is something we cannot tame.  All of us have trouble getting a little thing called the tongue under control.  "It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison." (James 3:8)(NIV)

What muscle is stronger than the tongue?  "The boneless tongue, so small and weak, can crush and kill," declared the Greek.

The writer of Proverbs describes an unwise person as "one who speaks like the piercings of a sword" Proverbs 12:18.  By our words, people are either built up or torn down.  Words shape our character, our outlook of life, and even our futures.  Sunlight has its source from the sun, and words spring up out of our heart.  Jesus says in Mark 7:21, "For it is from within, out of a person's heart, that evil thoughts come."

"The heart of the wise teaches his mouth, and adds learning to his lips.  Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the bones." Proverbs 16:23-24
We please the Lord with our tongue when we show discernment. "He who restrains his lips is wise,"  Proverbs 10:19 reminds us.  "When we do speak, we are to filter the words that escape our lips:  "Whoever guards his mouth and tongue keeps his soul from troubles" (Proverbs 21:23)

The tongue, that is, the words it speaks, have power to build up and power to destroy.  Both the power of death and of life, as the writer of Proverbs put it.  And the Lord Jesus himself warns us:
Matthew 12:36  But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof, in the day judgement. 

Thursday, May 26, 2016

Anniversary Dinner at Ferringhi Garden

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Tomato breads n Garlic breads

Mongolian barbeque steak











Ferringhi Garden is an ideal location for a romantic dinner with the most stunning environment.

Pearl Wedding Anniversary

In this current world of easy divorces, broken relationships and same-sex marriages, some may wonder if the original institution of marriage that brings a man and a woman together can really withstand the test of time.
Every relationship is unique.  Bringing two different people - probably also two families - together is a challenge in itself.

But when I look again at the marriage vows my wife and I took, I am reminded that it is indeed about staying together "for better, for worse", "for richer, for poorer", "in sickness and in health" and "to love and to cherish, till death do us part".

Today I celebrate 30 years of being married to a woman I have known for 33 years.  It dawned on me that though I may not be her Valentine who publicly declares my love for her with lavish gifts or celebrate with candle-light dinner, she is never envious of others who do. 

A portion of this time, she has been alongside me in my struggle, in pain, and for a good number of years with me as drawing little or no income (poorer).
On the flipside, in happy times, in times of good health, and in times of plenty, we have never taken our love for granted.
Only when we are in good times will we able to love in tough times.
Now that is one lesson about marriage I love to pass on to all who intend to tie the knot one day.
Our faith in God has deepened in a way that only suffering and trusting in God can bring about.

Promises are divided into two kinds.  One is the kind where you don't intend to keep.  Another the serious kind, and people should not make them unless they mean to keep it.

Wedding is just a day, the marriage is forever.




Wednesday, May 18, 2016

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Monday, May 9, 2016

Gifts and souvenirs from Japan


Pyjamas
Gift for Audelia


Chopsticks holders

Seaweeds from Ichimura

Japanese tea and kitchen utensils

Japanese Snacks

Japanese tea from Setsuko

Sunday, May 8, 2016

A charity event in KDU



A charity event in KDU Penang University College was held on the 7th of May 2016 in Bon Appetit, its training restaurant facility in conjunction of Mothers’ Day. 38 elderly people from The Penang Home for the Infirm and Aged enjoyed an evening full of fun activities and performances by SHTCA students and a singing group from Jia Ying Association.

The main target of this event is to invite around 40 elderly people from The Penang Home for the Infirm and Aged to have a dinner and a parents’ day celebration in KDU Penang University College.

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Fishy dinner at Oiso beach, Japan



Natsuko introduced us to a fishy dinner at a seaside restaurant along Oiso beach.





Tuesday, May 3, 2016

Land of the Rising Sun - Hakone

Mount Fuji



Mt. Fuji view from cruise





Thank God for a beautiful day - can see    Mount Fuji   clearly.